Are you are asking yourself the
often asked question- “How Can I StopMy Divorce And Save My Marriage?
Unfortunately, everyone is prone to
the deadly relationship killers- some do it consciously, others unconsciously.
So the best bet to saving your
marriage is to eliminate these relationship killers.
What
are Relationship Killers?
Relationship killers are those
things you do or don’t do that hurts your relationship and eventually kills it.
If they are present in your
relationship or marriage, then divorce is inevitable.
Here are some relationship killers
you need to avoid
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Infidelity
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Lack of Sexual satisfaction
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Unforgiveness
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Abuse
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Bitterness
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Jealousy
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Anger
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Lack of Trust
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Constant conflicts and fights
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Financial problems
There are many more. But these are
the ones that are a constant decimal in many marriages. If you can eliminate
these toxins from your marriages, then you stand a great chance of stopping the
divorce and saving your marriage.
While battling to save my own
marriage, I discovered that giving getting rid of many of these relationship
killers will be crucial to saving my marriage.
In addition to this, I learnt to
give my partner some breathing space and to avoid adding more pressure.
The moment she felt less pressured,
she was able to think more clearly, access the various options before her,
evaluate the situation more objectively and narrow down areas she had erred and
come up with ways to rectify the situation.
You don’t want to pile up pressure
and add more guilt on your partner if you are really interested in stopping your divorce.
One way to remove unnecessary
pressure on your partner is by avoiding questions that may add more tension to
an already charged situation.
Your best bet
will be to make your partner feel more relaxed around you. Pushing her away
with questions will only make you less attractive.
Avoid any form of Negativity- No
amount of negative emotions can save your marriage. Quit the blame game. Stop
the criticisms.
Don’t make any unnecessary and
unreasonable demands.
Anything that will add to the
atmosphere of mistrust and misgivings should be avoided.
Aim to give your all, including your,
your ear, your presence, your trust, and your unreserved LOVE.
Love gives all and expects nothing in return.
But guess what?
When you go out of your way to give
your unconditional, no hold barred love to the one you love and want to
re-unite with, you get more in return.
Why?
Because whatever you sow, you reap.
Sow love and you will reap love in
abundance.
Sow trust and you reap same in
immeasurable dimension.
Sow care, and get the same.
To save your marriage, invest in
sowing positive emotions and giving the very best you’ve got to offer. Your
partner’s heart will not be able to resist your offer and you will gradually
find that your marriage is on the path of redemption.
Start Building trust in your marriage
Your past conflicts, arguments and
name calling have succeeded in doing one thing- burning the bridge of trust and
mutual respect.
You need to start the process of
rebuilding that bridge.
Cut off every trust shattering acts
and actions of yours.
No more lies
Away with INFIDELITY
Most marriages die as a result of
infidelity. If you are interested in saving your marriage and building mutual
love and respect, learn to be faithful to your spouse.
Respect the marriage vow you made to
your partner.
And most importantly, build an
atmosphere of peace around yourself. You can’t give what you don’t have.
Learn to forgive yourself for the
past errors you may have made that contributed to the cracks in your marriage.
There is no need crying over spilled
milk. Only take responsibility and ensure the errors are not repeated.
If you need more insights on how to stop your divorce and save your
marriage, I will recommend this amazing resource called Save The Marriage Guide by Lee H.Baucom. Ph.d. You can read
more about it here.
I wish you the best as you start
this journey to peace and harmony in your home.
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