Do you really want to stop your divorce? Are you ready to make personal sacrifices to bring your marriage
back from the brink of dissolution? Are
you ready to jettison those actions of yours that may have contributed to the
ugly situation you now find yourself?
If you are ready, then I
want you to read through this article and make sure you take action
immediately.
Living in a divorce prone
environment where the divorce rate seems to be reaching for the sky can be
daunting. In most western world including The United States of America, Great
Britain, Canada and France, the divorce rate is over 50%.
The rate is even higher
among the black population in the United States of America.
Most people enter the
marriage institution almost prepared for the worst. They know with some
certainly that the union may not pass the test of time.
It may not stand the
pressure and stress associated with the coming together of two grown up adults
who have their individual egos and pride to protect.
That is why you see
pre-nuptial agreements in vogue today. None of the party is willing to burn the
bridge and make a truly lifelong commitment that is important for a lasting
marriage partnership.
But even at that, I have
witnessed a lot of successful marriages- unions that have stood the test of
time.
One example I can readily
give you here is the union between my dad and my Mom.
Their marriage was a source
of inspiration to me and my siblings. It was from them I knew anything is
possible if only we are prepared to see things from the other person’s
perspective.
If only we are ready to give
our all and expect nothing in return.
Yes, every marriage is
capable of surviving any storm if only the actors involved are ready to bury
their individual ego for the good of the union.
Are you ready to do that?
Don’t answer yet!!!!
The truth is- Getting
married and having to live in the same roof with the same person for the rest
of your life can be difficult and sometimes frustrating.
Herein lie the need to make
sacrifices.
Remember you are living with
someone with a different background, aspiration, vision from yours. Your
ability to accommodate your partner and tolerate his or her differences will go
a long way in determining the success or otherwise of the union.
So before you proceed with that divorce process. listen to the counsel from Dr. David Hawkins- Do Get Godly counsel
If you can just take a
moment to think over this, you will find that the root of your matrimonial
headache lies in your inability to understand your partners differences.
And that is why you are
headed towards the exit door called DIVORCE.
But you can halt the process
right now and begin to right the wrongs and work at restoring your home.
If you can try to see things
not just from your own selfish perspective, your needs and what you want- focus
on what your partner needs from you and wants from you and you will find it
easy to bring the hemorrhage to a stop.
Are you ready to put a stop
to that divorce process now?
Good luck.
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