Wednesday, February 5, 2014

Do You Want to Stop Your Divorce



Do you really want to stop your divorce? Are you ready to make personal sacrifices to bring your marriage back from the brink of dissolution?  Are you ready to jettison those actions of yours that may have contributed to the ugly situation you now find yourself?

If you are ready, then I want you to read through this article and make sure you take action immediately.

Living in a divorce prone environment where the divorce rate seems to be reaching for the sky can be daunting. In most western world including The United States of America, Great Britain, Canada and France, the divorce rate is over 50%. 

The rate is even higher among the black population in the United States of America.

Most people enter the marriage institution almost prepared for the worst. They know with some certainly that the union may not pass the test of time.

It may not stand the pressure and stress associated with the coming together of two grown up adults who have their individual egos and pride to protect.

That is why you see pre-nuptial agreements in vogue today. None of the party is willing to burn the bridge and make a truly lifelong commitment that is important for a lasting marriage partnership.

But even at that, I have witnessed a lot of successful marriages- unions that have stood the test of time.

One example I can readily give you here is the union between my dad and my Mom.
Their marriage was a source of inspiration to me and my siblings. It was from them I knew anything is possible if only we are prepared to see things from the other person’s perspective.

If only we are ready to give our all and expect nothing in return.

Yes, every marriage is capable of surviving any storm if only the actors involved are ready to bury their individual ego for the good of the union.

Are you ready to do that?
 
Don’t answer yet!!!!

The truth is- Getting married and having to live in the same roof with the same person for the rest of your life can be difficult and sometimes frustrating.

Herein lie the need to make sacrifices.

Remember you are living with someone with a different background, aspiration, vision from yours. Your ability to accommodate your partner and tolerate his or her differences will go a long way in determining the success or otherwise of the union.

So before you proceed with that divorce process. listen to the counsel from Dr. David Hawkins- Do Get Godly counsel

If you can just take a moment to think over this, you will find that the root of your matrimonial headache lies in your inability to understand your partners differences.
And that is why you are headed towards the exit door called DIVORCE.

But you can halt the process right now and begin to right the wrongs and work at restoring your home.

If you can try to see things not just from your own selfish perspective, your needs and what you want- focus on what your partner needs from you and wants from you and you will find it easy to bring the hemorrhage to a stop.

Are you ready to put a stop to that divorce process now?

Take a look at this recommended resource below for more helpful insights.


Good luck.

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